Boys Will Also Have To Trained
We consider girls to be weak but they are not always weak, they are doing everything men can do. A case of 2016 came under discussion due to a decision in January 2021 but there are many cases which do not get a voice, those on whom no one speaks and which are tolerated quietly. There are thousands-millions of cases in which girls grow up and forget about any incident that happened to them or they are conditioned so that they do not discuss it anywhere. It also has an effect that even if such an incident happens to another girl or woman, that woman advises that one should keep quiet.
The girl was 12 years old in the year 2016, now she must have been 17 years old, will be in the adult category next year but what is the guarantee that what happened to her at the age of 12 will not happen again. Make girls feel guilty if anything goes wrong, it is her fault. The taboos are on the female body. Guarantee, the girl only has to take that she will take care of herself and bless the world.
Means girls only have to handle, when will we teach boys that they too should care? Otherwise, we will not miss saying why the girl goes out.
Sense In Innocent Mind
When girls are innocent since then this perception is put in their mind - look, if someone is called on the pretext of giving chocolate, then don’t go after him. Means you don't have to do this; no boy is told not to seduce a girl. Boys don’t get that training, and they feel they are free to do what they want to do. That girl also must have been told not to go for the chocolate, she went for Guava. The 39-year-old man called the 12-year-old girl to his house on the pretext of giving guava, pressed her chests.
Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, emphasized the human bestial tendency. He made it clear that many of the lower qualities and characteristics of animals are also seen in humans. He was of the opinion that no change can be brought about in the nature of an adult person because the foundation of his personality lies in childhood, which cannot be changed in any way.
Means that 39-year-old man knew from his childhood that he is a man and could do anything. How easy he must have felt that he could do this and no one would pay attention. It will be in his mind that girls are naive, either unintelligent or just foolish, they can be seduced in any way.
Girls being emotionally weak gives strength in other hands, and that too in the hands of the man who feels that what is the need to call a girl home? In the train, on the bus, in any crowded area, he can tease any girl whenever he wants and the girl will not say anything. Why are the girls not taught that if someone attacks their fragile part then they too can inflict force on the delicate part of the boys, they should retaliate?
Now the Nagpur Bench of Bombay High Court has given the verdict on 19 January, "Forcibly touching a girl's chest is not sexual harassment. If in pressing chest, 'skin to skin touch' has not taken place, it is not a crime punishable under Section 7 of the POCSO Act and punishable under Section 8. " When this case reached the lower court, the court sentenced the accused under sections 354 (assault or use of criminal force with intent to commit modesty), 363 (punishment for kidnapping) and 342 (wrongful confinement) of the Indian Penal Code. Sentenced to one-year imprisonment and was also sentenced to three years of imprisonment under section 8 of the POCSO Act (Protection of Children from Sexual Offenses, 2012).
But the man appealed against the decision to the Nagpur Bench of the Bombay High Court, which was decided on 19 January 2021. Pushpa Gainediwala, the single judge of this bench, overturned the judgment of the lower court and waived the 3-year sentence given under the POCSO Act. The woman only forgave the punishment, while it is expected that women will get justice if women are appointed to the post of judges.
The National Campaign Against Torture (NCAT), an organization working for human rights, has said in its report that every day 96 children in India are sexually abused and tortured. Apart from Corona and terrorism, when such news reaches the world scene, it also becomes a reason that the US State Department makes a fresh statement, India comes in Level 4, which is the worst in terms of travel.
One such case came to light in the US that when the girl offered condom at the time of the rape and the lawyer argued that the girl too had a wish. But the court there admitted that she had taken this step for her protection, but if it happened, it was rape and rape was not acceptable. Why not so much confidence in the law of our country, why foreign women tourists do not find themselves safe here, and where do women living in the country find themselves safe in this country?
Excuse of Sacraments
Such cases put a question mark on the safety of every woman and also make every man in the dock. Then, all the men around us, whether they are brothers, husbands, fathers or friends, are they like this in the outside world and is every woman around us a woman's body beyond all relationships?
We do not allow men and women to be comfortable here. In Meerut, there are scenes of lathi charge on boys and girls sitting in the garden, and they said to prove that they are siblings or husband and wife, we do not accept natural tendencies. We are rigid and say that it is not so. We try to give a name to every relationship. How can a girl, who has been victimized by her own relatives or neighbours or someone she knows, trust a relationship?
We say if boys and girls are friends, then they should tell each other brother and sister so that the relationship will be safe. The Indore High Court gives the verdict that the woman he molested should be tied a Rakhi so that he will not molest it further. In the guise of a sacred relationship, Rakhi is tied to a criminal and says that there is no problem now.
When are we going to teach boys that, Whether the Rakhi is tied or not, it is wrong to molest any woman? When will we teach our boys?
In the Bhanwari Devi case, the lower court of Rajasthan makes a false statement that the upper caste man cannot even touch the lower caste woman, how will he rape? But rape happens. How terrible, toxic gang rape is.
Who will take the initiative? When we have no hope from our courts when women judges are not sensitive, then where will we go? If it is a man or a woman, is it not necessary to be a human being that he/she should be sensitive, and who is not sensitive, don’t you think they should be locked in a cage, Or put a board outside such a house- Beware of Men!